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I blame being a teen in the pre-panty hose days for my garter belt and stockings fetish. Fair Lady indulges me. Have I mentioned what a good girl she can be? The picture is from the internet.

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She takes my hand, guides it down her stomach, away  from the nipple I’m playing with. She drags it between her legs, shoves two fingers inside.  It is hot and wet with thick cream.  Creamy, like she’s been horny for awhile but not able to do anything about it.

“I dreamed you spanked me. You started slowly. You rubbed and stroked my ass as much as you spanked. It was exactly what I wanted. Then you spanked me really hard, once you had me floating. You grabbed my hair, pulled me so my ass pressed against you, and fucked me hard just like you spanked me. I didn’t want you to miss seeing how much I love being your good girl, even in my dreams.”

She humped until my fingers dripped her juices. Telling me she was my good girl.

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Few would say what we have is how it is supposed to be. We don’t try to convince anyone we are doing it the right way. We just enjoy what we have.  We hope you find your joy in the new year. HAPPY NEW YEAR!

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You don’t have to feel guilty when you want to use me. I know you will never really hurt me, so spank my ass, do whatever you need to do, make me your whore. I will always be yours.

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We are just another couple stepping out of the closet.  After much time lurking, it is time to step out and speak, when we have something of value to share.  I (DK) have lurked around for some time reading many of the DD blogs. Initially, I was amazed that there are many sane, “normal” adults who have intelligently evaluated the pros and cons of DD before incorporating it into their marriages.  FL and I are together because we believe in the role dynamics of HOH. I’ve always explained what I sought as an “old-fashioned” marriage. The kind of relationship your grandfather and grandmother might have had. Achieving this is a difficult thing in the modern world. And when you acquire it, instead of being able to tell the world, it is a secret you must keep.

Even though we have wanted the same thing, we have struggled communicating with each other. I would want things to happen a certain way. She’d want things to happen a certain way. Things just didn’t happen!  I’d get frustrated with her “inattention to details.” Obviously, she didn’t care about “me” or “us”. If so, she’d recall at least some of the details. Right?! Off to the man cave I’d go. She’d see me going to the man cave as confirming my lack of caring about her and what she wanted. We’ve danced that dance several times in our ten years together. While I enjoy dancing with Fair Lady, that particular dance is my least favorite. Fortunately, I think we are on the way to leaving that dance behind us. We had a recent discussion (not quite an argument), which was “eye-opening” (Fair Lady’s words). The communication lines seem to have been opened. We talked and agreed we would use DD in our marriage.

We have few rules by design. She wants me to have final say. Will she let me know what she thinks about things? Yes! I’ve asked her to be honest and truthful with me. In the past, she has wasted so much energy trying to guess the “magical” correct answer that would make me happy, (baggage from her first marriage). We have always talked about major decisions that affect us. I don’t want that to change. Will we always agree? No! I don’t ask her to agree with me. I ask that she respond honestly. We agreed that the final decision is mine. Debate is good. I learned a long time ago that if you are willing to stop talking and listen you tend to learn so much more. She knows that she will be spanked when she doesn’t live up to her end of the agreement. She trusts me enough to let me decide when she’s fallen short of our agreement.

Thankfully, I don’t get spanked when I fall short of our agreement. It might be easier if I did, because I struggle with spanking FL. In the past, I have struggled with spanking her when she fell short of our agreement. I just wasn’t comfortable with spanking her. Why not? I love the idea. I love seeing her naked butt over my knee. I love the sights and sounds associated with spanking her. So, where was (is) the problem? I was taught that men don’t hit women. My issue was (is) reconciling my upbringing with what feels right for our marriage. Now, rather than retreating to my man cave, FL gets spanked. I won’t withdraw so I don’t say something I’ll be sorry for later. I won’t withdraw until my hurt feelings fester to the point that an argument ensues.  FL won’t feel rejected or feel that I’m not in love with her. I know I’m not the only husband who has struggled with this issue. In time, we’ll figure out how to over come it. In time, I might be able to rent my “man cave” out due to lack of use. We can hope!

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