I’m working on being more consistent with my spanking duties. We’re trying keeping her butt a little bit tender as a reminder to take meds on time, record food intake, and to generally be the “good girl” she wants to be. Even a baby boomer can enjoy being told she’s a good girl. I’ve been using my belt to administer 10 in the morning and 10 in the evening after work. It seems to be working. Blood sugar levels are under control for the first time ever. There was a bingo incident were she caused me concern when she didn’t return home on time. Otherwise things are improving.

I must say I’m enjoying the spankings. Love the view of my girl’s bottom presented and waiting for me. (This is not FairLady. The butt is very close to how she looks.) This is my favorite positions for giving her a spanking. OTK is sexy but when you’re older comfort becomes a major consideration for both of us. Arthritis and replacement joints means you have to modify positions. On the bed with pillows under her middle put her butt at a great angle. Especially for spanking the part of her butt right above the crease where butt cheek becomes thigh. The lady in the picture presents a nice above the crease target.

Bent over the back of a chair or table works well for us old folks too. (Not FairLady)

I love that my fat bottomed girl appreciates me keeping her motivated. Difficult to think of getting to spank a nicely padded butt as a chore.

We are trying to learn how to manage FairLady’s ADHD together. Our situation is complicated since she doesn’t like being on the medications. She was on meds, but there was not a significant difference in behaviors. It is frustrating when she is so easily distracted from completing tasks she has agreed to do. I know she not doing it on purpose, but it is still difficult for me to accept. She is just as frustrated. The days are filled with many squirrels crossing her path..?

I am reminded of something a psychologist friend said to me, “that which attracts us will drive us crazy”. Many of the things that I liked about FairLady when I met her are related to her ADHD. She was spontaneous, always up for an adventure, and full of energy. Unfortunately her ADHD has just gotten worse with time. We are trying to find our way forward. Right now I’m trying to provide some structure for her, but it takes a lot of time and energy. Wish us luck.


I hope your evening has only wanted consequences.

Today we celebrate nine years of marriage! Happy Anniversary FairLady. I am lucky to have found you. We definitely met at the right time. I was finally ready to share my life with the right woman and you were ready for the right man to enter yours. You are this dominant’s dream girl and I am lucky that you belong to me.

Here’s to many more years of having the privilege of using you for our pleasure. Always and forever!

It’s the submissive who shows to others what type of Husband owns her.

How do you show the world what type of man captured your heart?

She is still the one and only.

She didn’t step right out of my dream, because I didn’t know women like her were out there.

“You are exactly what I need. I’m glad you care enough to beat my ass and hold me accountable. Please don’t give up on me.”

Sometimes a good hard spanking is what we both need. I’m blessed to have a wife who allows me to spank her. We talked about how we are as a couple and how we want to be. It was a replay of the talk we had years ago when we began living together. We have gotten away from how we promised each other we would be as a couple. There are many reasons for us getting side tracked: her ADD, demands of both our jobs, family demands, my failure to address this sooner. Our wedding vows did not contain an exit clause, so we have some work to do.

It’s John Wayne day on TMC. We watched McClintock for the umpteenth time. Two of our favorite spanking scenes in films. Any scene with Maureen O’Hara getting spanked is worth watching. John also spanked that ass in The Quiet Man, one of my favorite movies. They were public spankings which she fights, but she ends up over the knee anyway.